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Dear Tired Educator: I See You
I see you. The weight in your shoulders, the deep breath before you walk into the classroom, the practiced smile that hides the exhaustion underneath. I feel you... because I am you. There are days when you hold it all together with sheer willpower. When the caffeine and protein shakes are the only things that keep you upright. When you cry in your car, wipe your eyes, and then step into the room with a heart full of love and a mind full of chaos. And yet… you still show up.Y
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Nov 112 min read


Understanding the Subtle Signs: How Children Communicate Abuse to Educators
As educators, we hold a significant position in our students' lives, often standing as their first line of defense against various...
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Oct 23 min read


Beyond Resilience: Helping Students Bounce Forward
When we talk about trauma-informed practice, the focus is often on resilience. Resilience is the ability to “bounce back” — to return to...
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Sep 292 min read


When Love and Protection Collide: Setting Trauma-Informed Boundaries
As parents and educators, we all want the same thing: for children to grow up safe, loved, and thriving. But what happens when “love”...
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Sep 52 min read


Why Safety in the Classroom Matters
When we talk about helping students succeed, we often jump straight to curriculum, test scores, and lesson plans. But the foundation of...
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Sep 32 min read


Peace in Chaos: Why Silence Isn’t Always Safe
When most people picture peace , they imagine quiet—stillness, calm, and silence. For many, this sounds restorative. But for those with a...
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Aug 302 min read


Rooted and Resilient: Building Strength in Ourselves and Our Children
Resilience isn’t about bouncing back—it’s about standing strong. It’s the steady, quiet strength that carries us through adversity,...
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Aug 262 min read


Trauma-Informed Does Not Mean Soft: The Power of Boundaries and Skills
When people hear the phrase “trauma-informed” , many assume it means being endlessly patient, lowering expectations, or letting behaviors...
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Aug 262 min read


What Students Wish Educators Knew: Insights From My Daughter
As we prepare for a new school year, I wanted to share something powerful that came from a conversation with my 13-year-old daughter,...
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Aug 172 min read


What Exactly Is “Trauma-Informed”—and Why It Helps Children Thrive in Schools
When students feel safe, understood, and supported, they can engage in learning. Trauma-informed is simply the intentional, school-wide...
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Aug 133 min read


Finding Your Balance: Thriving as an Educator This School Year
The start of a new school year always comes with its own energy—fresh supplies, decorated classrooms, lesson plans in place. From the...
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Aug 102 min read


Just Breathe: A Summer Reset for Educators, Parents, and Students
Summer. A time we often associate with freedom, rest, and rejuvenation — and yet, for many of us, it also brings a new kind of stress....
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May 282 min read


The Season of Connection: What Humanity Can Learn About Interconnectedness
OpenAI (Sage). (2024). Interconnectedness and holiday unity. htpps:// chat.openai.com As the world transitions into the festive season,...
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Dec 14, 20243 min read


Nurturing Resilient Communities: A Summer Focus for School Administrators and Community Leaders
As we envision a successful start to the upcoming fall semester, the foundation for resilient communities lies in the collaborative...
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Jun 14, 20243 min read


Surviving Summer: Finding Balance as a Parent
Hello Parents! Summer is here, and while the season brings the joy of sunny days and family adventures, it also means our kids are home...
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Jun 14, 20242 min read


Creating Safe Spaces: Trauma-Informed Practice in Schools
In the bustling corridors of our schools, among the notebooks and textbooks, lies a silent yet profound truth: the mental well-being of...
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May 16, 20242 min read


The Self-Care Conundrum: From Hype to Self-Awareness
As I lay in my first hot yoga class in years, surrounded by the soothing warmth and the faint scent of incense, my mind drifts to a topic...
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May 10, 20242 min read


Building Bridges: The Power of Relationships in Supporting Children's Success
Dear Parents, Administrators, Teachers, and Fellow Educators, In the journey of nurturing and educating our children, one fundamental...
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May 3, 20242 min read


Letter from a Traumatized Child to the World
Dear World, I don't know if you'll understand, but I want to say sorry. Sorry for not being the way you expect me to be. Sorry for not...
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May 3, 20242 min read


Dear School Administrators: Acknowledging Your Dedication and Efforts in Supporting Our School Community
Dear School Admin, I hope this letter finds you well. As we navigate the daily challenges and complexities of managing our school...
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Apr 27, 20242 min read
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